Saturday, December 7, 2013

Where is Nikki?

Hey friends!
So aside from my blog post earlier this week, I've essentially been off the radar for a while, so I figured why not catch up a bit with those of you who I don't talk to on a daily basis! I've had quite a bit happen since the last life update post (probably in September? WOW it's been a while...), therefore here it comes. Ready, set, GO!

Life Update #1:
I'm not leaving UD for Missouri State this semester.
Many of you know that I was considering transferring to MSU for various reasons. This is not happening! While MSU frickin ROCKS and there would be a ton of awesome things to be a part of there, as well as many awesome people, it just doesn't feel right. I feel like UD has more in store for me than I had previously anticipated, as well as there are some AWESOME people here too. Also there are some flippin awesome opportunities coming up next semester for me (refer to life update #2).

Life Update #2:
I will be spending next semester as secretary of Campus Activities Board, as a Callings Retreat leader-in-training, and potentially as a YoungLife leader.
Next semester, I have quite a lot on my plate, but I couldn't be more excited about that. 
- First, there's CAB secretary. CAB is in charge of planning a lot of alternative-to-alcohol programming which is right up my alley, so being secretary sounds like it's going to be an awesome opportunity, especially because there's some really awesome people on the board. 
- Next up is Callings Retreat leader-in-training. I can't begin to tell you how pumped I am to be a Callings leader. But Nikki, what is Callings? WELL just let me tell ya!
Callings is a Christian retreat that happens over the summer at UD for incoming freshman. I was a Callings retreat-goer this past summer and I cannot say anything but good things about the experience. At Callings, I met some really awesome role models (cough cough Jillian, Morgan, Carrie, and all the other leaders), not to mention several of my very closest, most awesome friends from UD. I guess mostly what I'm trying to say is YAYYYYYY CALLINGS WOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
But anyway, so this next semester, I'm in a class on Sundays to train to be a Callings leader. This will be with all the other leaders-in-training, aka a ton of people that I love. So I'm just really frickin excited for all of this.
- Finally, there's YoungLife. Ahhh, sweet sweet YoungLife. If you haven't talked to me about it yet or don't know what YoungLife is, here's a basic overview:
YoungLife is a ministry program to reach out to high schoolers. As a YoungLife leader, essentially what I will do is go to a school, create relationships with the kids at that school, and teach them about how much Christ loves them and what He has done for them.
That's a very basic overview, but it gives you the general idea.
The reason I say I will potentially be a YoungLife leader is because it's a very big time commitment and I need to figure out if I have enough time for it. I'm EXTREMELY hoping I do, but as of right now, I'm not positive. So we'll see, but I'm really hoping for it.

Life Update #3:
I am now an Adolescent to Young Adult Education Major, with a concentration in Language Arts (and potentially a minor in Human Rights)!
After three major changes, we've finally landed on AYA ed. I'm going to be a high school English teacher!!! While some people hear that and probably vomit a little bit at the thought, I AM SO EXCITED! I really want to get kids pumped about life and help them find their passions, hopefully both as an English teacher and eventually as a leadership teacher (shout out to Jane Perrica and Andy Ross on motivating me towards that one!). So that's very exciting!

Life Update #4:
My toe is not broken.
I'm just going to say this fast because it's one of the more idiotic things I've done lately, but uhhh... IfelloffthetopbunkbedinmyroomtheothermorningandthoughtIbrokemytoebutIdidn'tsodon'tworryeverybody,thisidiotisokay.
So there's that.

Life Update #5:
I learned that sometimes what might be best isn't what feels best, and that sometimes people have to let you go to let you grow.
That's all.

The final life update, Life Update #6:
I'm coming home Thursday!
GUYS, I'm coming home and I'll be home for a month!!! So I've missed you all very much and love you as well, and therefore I CANNOT WAIT to come home to those of you who mean so much to me. So get pumped people; I'll see ya soon!

That's pretty much it for now! I hope you enjoyed this episode of Where is Nikki?, and I'll see ya next time folks.



Monday, December 2, 2013

Give Love, Receive Love, Be Love.

My senior year of high school, I started attending Crosspoint ONE_Student Ministries youth group on Wednesday nights, led by youth pastor, Ryan Stoops. Let me just tell you, Ryan Stoops is one incredible guy. He is as Christ-filled and as loving as can be. The love Stoops shows is never exclusive - it goes out to all. And it wasn't just him who showed this kind of powerful, warm love. It was all of Crosspoint's youth. This kind of love - intentional love, love inspired by Christ - was really special to me. It was something I felt I needed to pass on, and still feel I need to pass on to this day.

Behind the love that ONE_Student Ministries and Ryan shared with all of us kids was the love of a Savior that cared enough to die for his people, that they might live eternally. This Savior wishes that we love one another as he loved us:



“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
John 13:34-35

So you see, I didn't just learn how to love at Crosspoint. I learned how to be known for love. It's something I have to work at everyday, but it's something incredibly important to me, especially as a Christian.


The thing about being known for love (or "known for this," as the ONE_Student Ministries so often emphasizes) is that it's not just about loving the people that it's easy to love. It's so easy to give love to your best friend, your mom, your significant other.... But what about the others?



You have to love the people that it's hard to love. The people that bug the crap out of you, the people that hurt you, the people that have broken you down. You have to love these people just as much as you love the ones that it's easy to love. Because it is not the easy love, but the difficult love that defines you.

So my challenge to you, blog followers, is to take a little extra time this week to give more love to more people. Be patient with others' mistakes, smile at them, and support them in what they need support in. Be kind, accepting, and intentional in your love. Overall, just when you see someone who needs love, give it. Or even if they don't look like they need love, give it anyway.


Be the best representation of love that you can be.


On that note, all of my love to you guys. You're all incredibly wonderful.


Nikki